Saturday, October 02, 2010

Of wedding : HE taught me to be thankful

The wedding was my fairytale. I dreamt of english theme wedding dgn susun atur program yg teliti. Everything need to be planned well and jotted down so everybody will remember what should they do. I was very scared of flaws but Allah knows best. On THE DAY, my mind was here and there. My "Holy Pink Wedding Things" book was gone. My wedding scrapbook was gone too. My only hope was on my family and friends to run the event smoothly. Thank you for your ears (friends'/families ears) for listening to my complaints and compliments. haha! tq tq tq soo much for being there. It was awesome guys!

Of my dream that had been come true, which is getting married to the man i loved (still, and always be) in a beautiful wedding (i think it was beautiful, sorry if you dont think so) i am very thankful. Well, its normal during the post-mortem of an event mesti byk mulut berkata sana-sini. Tapi bila difikir2 balik, Allah telah tentukan macam mana majlis kita akan dijalankan. Kita harus terima bila sesuatu yang dirancang tidak dapat disempurnakan oleh orang yg kita harapkan. Sakit hati? ya. Geram? ya. perkataan "what if?" or "kan bagus kalau.." dr syaitan memang banyak memainkan peranan waktu itu. Jadi kita harus sedar dan cepat2 istighfar. N kagum dgn abah and mami yg sangat tenang menghadapi situasi yg tak diingini waktu tu. Bukanlah besar sgt isunya sampai kena masuk suratkhabar (macam satu kes di Penang kalau tak silap, caterer tak hantar makanan di majlis dia..isk..nauzubillah!) , isu biasa tapi cara mereka mengawal keadaan sungguh baik. Dan doa serta munajat pada Allah sebelum majlis dilangsungkan haruslah banyak supaya apa yg telah kita rancangkan dapat disempurnakan.

Yes, we should not look down on other people. Im talking about wedding here. Dont compare your wedding plans with others. Sharing is good, comparing is not good. "Ala..dia buat kat dewan tu,aku kat...| oh...dia punye kain beli kat indon, aku kat...|ala....bunga dia plastik,aku punye...|" trust me this type of conversation wont help u to feel great. Setiap orang ade kemampuan masing2 dan keinginan masing2. Jadi, bila ke wedding orang, senyum dan doakan yang baik2 buat pasangan. pujuk hati jgn complaint. sebaliknya menghargai usaha sang pengantin dan keluarga. tak semua orang dapat menikmati "perkahwinan" dalam hidup mereka. kalau ada..mungkin lambat. ha! jadi..bersyukurlah! semoga dengan doa kita, pengantin pun akan doakan kebaikan utk kita juga :D




Tips utk bakal pengantin: Sentiasa solat hajat dan bermunajat supaya majlis berjalan dengan lancar, bakal suami akan setia dan membimbing kita ke arah kebaikan sampai bila-bila. Bersedekah pun satu cara supaya Allah limpahkan rezeki buat kita. mana tau saat akhir ade orang nak bagi hadiah TV plasma + honeymoon pakej + sponsor kek 9 tingkat ke utk kita. :D

3 comments:

faizburn said...

semua yg dinyatakan di atas adalah benar & bernas. selamat pengatin (lama) sayang... heheh

zephyred said...

hehe, hello anne ;) marilah berblogging semula, masa i bru nk start wedding planning i suka bace ur blog, tp lepas tu you privatekan , hehe, tak dapat jadi stalker dah :D

heee, on the wedding topic, gosh ..cant begin to tell you how true it is about comparing weddings..baru je borak dgn suraya bout this similar topic, biasalaa, hati sentiasa rasa tak puas..rasa 'why didnt i do this on my wedding?', 'knapa aku tak appoint vendor cam bride ni jugak', 'cantiknya wedding org tuuu'..end up ktorg sama2 dah taknak tngok wedding blogs lagi dah, hehe (husbands ktorg pun dah stress dgn ktorg :D)

well, selepas kena basuh dgn hubby, i personally believe that we have to appreciate the most important thing in a wedding 'penyatuan hati & cinta' tu, thats the whole reason anyway kan? and eventhough simple ke, grand ke, yang penting we love what we organized and got married to the guy that loves us the most ♥

hehe, mcm i pulak, blog je psl wedding sendiri sesukahati, tak peduli org suka ke tak, if dorg tak suka dorg ada choice tak yah bace..kan kan kan, yang penting me & my hubby sukaaa :D

waaa, comment panjang sempena valentines day ;)

take care mummy-to-be!! teruskan berblogging ;)

anne.zaqwan said...

aween: baru perasan your comment. tq for your opinion. yea, i privatekan my blog for a while sbb symptoms tu lah-symptom "compare2" and "nanti ape die tu kate ek". lame2 sedar sendiri mcm takde point utk rasa mcm tu. this is my blog, point i berblog adalah utk share2 ape yg boleh dishare kan. plus express sikit2 (sikit je) rase yg tak best dlm hati ni kan. so keep on blogging to both of us! luv!

han:insyaAllah.. :)